Today I’m going to share an excellent resource that Jonathan Wondrusch of Grokkery developed a few weeks ago. If you’re familiar with Jonathan’s writing you’ll know that he is all about self-awareness. To help people develop this quality he created a PDF worksheet. Today, I’d like to share my answers to his thought provoking questions in hope of inspiring you to give it a shot as well.
You can download the PDF here.
the basics.
1. What area of my life am I trying to change?
I’m trying to change the way I approach my blogging business. I need to treat it like a job and put forth the effort to grow my site, grow my involvement in the community, and grow my knowledge of blogging and the subsequent topics I must improve my knowledge of (copywriting, marketing, social networking, etc.).
2. What am I excited for in that area of my life that already exists?
I’m really excited by my blog and the fact that I have already released an ebook. I have taken the first steps toward developing a readership and monetizing my content. I think I’m slowly building a pretty rad community of people trying to improve their lives by taking a serious look at how simplicity ties into their goals.
3. What causes me the most pain in this area of my life?
My inconsistency when it comes to writing. I will go stretches where I write very little and then I’ll make up for it by cranking out several articles in a matter of hours. I would like to be more consistent with my output. Also, my inability to take the time to learn the minutiae behind the “business of blogging” is restricting the growth of my blog, I’m sure.
4. Am I willing to take total responsibility for my current reality?
You betcha. Nobody else is going to make this blogging thing happen for me. If I want to make a living helping people with my writing I gotta make it happen myself. I want the location independence that blogging provides so I can accompany my girlfriend/wife wherever her job takes her and still provide for some of our material needs. If we get married and she ends up in the industry she is working toward, there is a very real possibility that we could move to Ireland for an extended period of time. I want to be able to take that awesome opportunity and continue to be productive at the same time.
5. How committed am I to making a change in this area?
Committed enough to be writing this during an all-night writing session when I have to work at my manual labor “real job” in the morning. Let’s do this thing.
embracing reality.
1. What patterns in my behavior created my current situation?
When I’m productive and successfuly creating quality content for my blog I seem to get complacent. Instead of building on that progress and leveraging it into something better, I slowly lose traction until I find my head barely over water.
Also, despite what I preach, I let distractions dominate way too much of my life when I should be writing. I somehow think I’m above being affected by distractions even though I know that’s not the case.
2. What facts and fears have I been hiding from?
I’ve been hiding from the fact that if I fail at this venture I really have nothing to fall back on other than my deck refinishing job. A teaching job is nowhere in my immediate future due to the economic reality of the Detroit-area. My coaching gigs do not pay enough to sustain me. Once the summer is over and there are no more decks to refinish, I either have to go back to subbing (which I abhor**LINK**) or I need to make my living off this blog. If I fail, I have to spend my time doing something I hate just to make enough money to scrape by.
3. Have I blamed anyone else for my situation?
Not intentionally or obviously, but I’m sure I have subconsciously. At some level I’m sure I have blamed more successful bloggers for “saying everything there is to be said” or having more readers or something else equally inane.
I’m sure I have subconsciously blamed anyone who has ever distracted me such as my friends and/or girlfriend. However, I’m the one who regulates distractions, not them.
4. What actions have I avoided taking?
I have avoided eliminating distractions when I’m trying to be productive. I should turn off the internet, silence my phone, go somewhere quiet, and write within WriteRoom every time I need to write. I get lazy and think I can write in TextEdit (like right now) with an instant message window in the background, Twitter on one tab and my email on another.
I have avoided getting serious about learning about the technical aspects of blogging, site design, SEO, copy writing and all the other details that are important to blogging. I hide behind the “content is king” motto; but that is only true to a certain point. Eventually I need to learn how to market myself and my product effectively.
5. What are the past, short term, and long term consequences of my current behaviors?
Past: My blog has seen uneven and sporadic growth since it’s inception. When I go through spurts of discipline and create excellent content and focus on growing the blog, it improves. When I get lazy or uninspired, it stagnates.
Short-term: Much of the same. The blog doesn’t grow. I waste my time creating premium content because nobody purchases it. I have to move back into my parents’ house when my lease expires in October because I won’t be able to afford rent through the winter.
Long-term: I have to find a job that ties me to a geographic location. If my girlfriend has an offer to go somewhere else for her job (like Ireland) it will be difficult for me to pack up and move. My blog will eventually dissolve into obscurity and I’ll look back on it as an amusing past-time and nothing more.
defining the future.
1. What would the ideal version of this area of my life look like? Describe it in exacting detail.
I would spend my days completely self-directed. I would be productive and engaged with my work. Most of my time would be spent writing and reading with a minimum spent on the administrative duties of running a blog. My income would be largely automatic and large enough to allow me to live comfortably. I would be able to travel at will and still be able to maintain my blog. In fact, my blog would be providing enough income I’d be able to focus on other pursuits like coaching hockey, volunteering, or going back to school for a graduate degree.
2. What is the easiest, most achievable, first step i am able to take toward my ideal vision?
I could write an excellent article to be posted to my blog immediately. I could make sure it lines up with all the copywriting advice I’ve read, make sure it has a great headline, and is formatted to perfection.
3. What are the milestones between my current reality and my ideal vision?
- Releasing my 2nd ebook.
- Attaining 1,000 subscribers.
- Making an average of $1000/month.
4. What habits will you need to break and what habits will you need to create to move forward?
Break: Addictive need to multitask. Stubborness toward learning about marketing, SEO, and the other aspects of business I find boring, confusing, or shady.
Create: Everyday writing habit. Regular schedule of self-improvement when it comes to learning about blogging.
5. What can help me remain accountable as I move forward?
My blogging buddy, Jonathan Wondrusch. My girlfriend. All my readers.
I was really surprised by how much this worksheet helped me crystallize my thinking. I’d be really curious as to what your answers are to these questions. If you have an area of your life that you want to improve (and who doesn’t?) please consider sharing your thoughts in the comments!